January 31, 2011
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I am back home now, after a few days in New Jersey. I usually like to write my blog in chronological order, but I am going to write a special post in honor of my Grandmother. This Thursday, I flew back to the east coast to attend my Grandmother's funeral. Due to the snow storm, my flight(s) were delayed/canceled/rescheduled, and my cousin Dave waited almost 3 hours at the airport to pick me up. Door to door, it took over 16 hours.
Friday morning was the funeral. This may seem strange since I'm 36-years-old, but it to me, my Grandmother never aged. From the time she visited when I was a little girl to the last time I saw her a few years ago, she always looked the same, was always a strong and fearless person. It just didn't seem real that she was gone. My sister Sophie played the piano during the service. Many of her children, daughters-in-law, and grandchildren spoke about her. There were numerous stories - some humorous, some sad, all touching - about her strength and love for her family.
My father spoke of her in high regards that day, as well as throughout my childhood. Having such a respected matriarch of the family definitely influenced the person I am - I don't think it's coincidence that all her granddaughters are independent, opinionated women!
The two nights I stayed in New Jersey, I shared a hotel room with my cousin Patt. It was a great bonding experience. We had so much in common, from our views on parenting to our poor taste in movies (Bruno anyone?) We talked every night until 3am! We had a family lunch after the service, and Friday evening, all the cousins who were in town went out for drinks and pizza at a local Princeton bar.
I'd like to think that Grandma was pleased to see all her children and so many grandchildren come together. Her life was truly one to celebrate. And even though she lived 100-years, it didn't feel like enough. I will definitely miss her. May Grandma Shu-Ching ("Nai Nai") rest in peace.
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