Month: December 2012

  • Okay, I love this time of year, which translates to me taking lots of pictures. James already figured that out about me – the happier I am, the more photos I take. I think it’s because I want to remember as much of it as I can. And do re-live the moments to some extent when I blog about my life or read my entries at a later date. So anyway, hopefully it’s not too much!

    Friday, 2 weeks ago, Calista had her annual holiday program. It’s amazing how quickly kids grow and learn from year to year. I still remember Calista in the baby class, where they shook jingle bells and looked frightened up on stage. She is now in preK, belting out songs with (semi) coordinated dancing; her class was the “grand finale.”

     

    Saturday, we went to one of our favorite holiday traditions: Alex and Nicole’s pajamas party! Calie had dance lessons right before, so ironically, she had to change back into pajamas for the party! The kids played games, and decorated gingerbread and sugar cookies. Of course, we also had lunch … roast turkey sandwiches. I still can’t understand why no one else likes the dark meat and crispy skin, that’s the best part! Finger lick’in good! (I’m classy like that)

      

     

    The Xbox dance competitions were hilarious to watch! Sigh … I just love lounging around in comfy clothes with close friends.

     

    In the evening, we went to our other favorite holiday party: Sara and Joe’s annual Christmas potluck. Complete with caroling and crazy white elephant gift exchange. I love how Sara can just pick out any song and play it on the piano … I have no musical talent (despite 4 years of torture, I mean classical training) and I’m really impressed by those who do.

      

    It was a child-free party, so thanks to Sam for watching our kids!

     

    Sunday, after swim lessons, I took both kids to Busy Kidz for a playdate with Cassie. Busy Kidz is an indoor city play area near our home, and for $10/child, kids could pretend play to their heart’s content. For older kids, they had a stack of games we like to play: Carcasonne, Stratego, Ticket to Ride etc. Adults are free admission, and they have a sitting area with wi-fi, tea, coffee, and magazines. Unfortunately, I had to use their free wi-fi, as there was another escalation at work. (Working on the weekends is really getting old.)

     

     

      

    Right after the playdate, we went to Tabitha’s gingerbread house making potluck. Since their house is not big enough (that’s what they say), they use the meeting rooms at work. With movies playing on the big screen, I gorged on spicy salt and pepper pork chops, sushi, and red velvet cake. There was also pizza and spaghetti, but really, why eat anything else when there’s raw fish?

      

    The kids had fun decorating, although they were no competition for the adults. I had never seen such a huge variety of gingerbread house building materials. I’ll have to ask them for the recipe for the frosting, as it was far better than the ones that come in the store bought kits. I’m inspired to bring back the haunted house making activity for my annual Halloween party. As the event was at work, I was able to quickly run into the lab upstairs. In the parking lot, I ran into someone from my team and we talked about the escalation. The kids were in the car, but the door was open. On the way to our next event, Calie said,”You yell at people and people yell back. And you say bad words.” (BTW, she means words like dumb and stupid) Me: “But am I nice at home?” Calie: “Yes, but Santa is also watching when you’re at work.” silly What can I say.

     

    Off to what next event? Anish’s 8th birthday party at SkyHigh! Unlike most birthday parties for Zach’s friends, most (all?) of the parents stayed for dinner. The best part was that it wasn’t just pizza – but Indian food catered from one of my favorite Indian restaurants.

     

    Happy 8th Birthday Anish!

     

    With all the holiday gorging, I was grateful that it didn’t rain and I ran 10k both Saturday and Sunday with my running group. Boy, I am out of shape, huffing and puffing after only a few miles. I just need to maintain for now … training for my half-marathon starts in January. I probably need to pick up some running shoes too, as I’ve been wearing cross trainers and my heels hurt when I run more than 2-3 miles. Maybe it would also help if I dropped a few pounds!

    Wednesday, I had my annual team potluck. My team is now 35 people. And while not all could make it, we also had some special guests (people we work closely with) and spouses/kids. I bought a ~$100 rib-eye roast from Costco, and worked from home in the afternoon to make sure my house didn’t burn down. After all that work and expense, my meat thermometer failed me and the roast was well-done. I’m thinking it’s time to start using a catering service! I love this party despite how crowded it is (James counted over 50 guests.) I ask for so much from my team and, indirectly, their families, that I’ll always want to thank them personally.

     

    Best. Team. Ever.

    This weekend, we had planned to go up to Tahoe, as both kids are now old enough for full day ski/snowboarding lessons. Alas, mother nature had different plans and the entire weekend was raining. Not just drizzling, but real rain and wind … our neighbors on both side had their front yard Christmas decor knocked over into a pile of jumbled lights. So we stayed home. Calie went to dance class. I took a yoga class. We went to Busy Kids again.

      

     

    In the evening, we went to Linus and Jess’ Christmas party. There were so many people, they rented out a clubhouse. Our samosa appetizers were a hit (all gone) and the set a colorful Asian bowls we contributed to the gift exchange were highly sought after. The gift exchange was a deviation of the usual “draw numbers, steal N times, N+1 owner keeps the gift” drill. It was faster paced and more suited for a larger group … hmmm… I may have to subject my team to that game next year. Thanks to Jess/Linus, Tabitha/Chigme, Sam/Melissa, Joe/Sara for hosting holiday parties this winter - I know how much effort goes into hosting a party, and we really appreciate getting an invitation! (Bummed to miss 3 other holiday parties this year, hopefully the dates and times will work out for us next year!)

     

    We also played lots of games all weekend. And had Tabitha and her family over for an impromptu lunch playdate. They were coming to Folsom for some shopping, and I had a new Indian dish I wanted to make (Ok, it’s from a packet … but I still had to fry the paneer, stir the spice mix into milk, and sautee tomatoes! For me, that counts!) Indian food was perfect for a rainy day. After they left, I napped on the couch for 2.5 hours! I rarely nap unless I’m sick, so I’m thinking it must be the combination of Typhoid medication (for an upcoming trip to Bangalore) and all the yummy comfort food!

     

      

    Hurray! It’s Sunday and I don’t have to go to work tomorrow … 2 more days off! I could get used to this! happy

      

     

  • Two weekends ago, we went to visit James’ parents for the day. We were originally going to spend Thanksgiving with them, but with my parents flying in from the east coast, we moved our trip (and they spent Thanksgiving with James’ sister instead). The kids fun playing with trains and dolls. With both kids entertained and no Internet, I flipped through catalogs until I fell asleep.

     

     

    It was raining pretty hard Sunday morning, so we skipped out on our CIM (California International Marathon) fun run. I’m sure if I were running the actual marathon, I would have braved the storm, but it wasn’t worth a 2.63 mile route. Instead, we went to Melissa’s house for a play date and lunch. Much cozier! Plus, they served their award winning empanadas – yum.

     

      

    In the late afternoon, Calista met up with her friend Cassie for a local production of ‘A Charlie Brown Christmas.’ It was super cute, only 30 minutes and $7/ticket. We had Cassie and her parents over for dinner after the show.

     

      

    Mid-week, Zachary’s school had a ‘Festival of Lights’ event, where each grade had displays of how people around the world celebrate the holidays. There were samples of food (the room for India was the yummiest!) and Santa was in the North Pole room. Zach asked Santa for a bike since his knees hit the handle bars of his current bike. Calie asked for a toy horse and new shoes.

      

    Last Saturday was SUPER busy! Zach and I went on a 6.3 mile jog with friends while James took Calie to dance class. We met up at the annual Santa event at our workplace, where there were crafts, stations to write letters to Santa, movies, and animal stuffing.

      

    And the obligatory family photo with Santa … complete with badge (Ugh!)

     

    Then I took Calista to Aubrey and Courtney’s birthday party (Happy 6th Birthday!) In the afternoon, I went to 2 yoga classes (Calie came with me to one.)

     

    10k jog + over 2 hours of yoga in one day = sooo sore! Call me crazy but I think I’m more motivated to exercise because my Lululemon exercise outfits are so comfortable and cute. I’m a huge fan. I think their clothes are perfect for middle-aged women/moms … high quality, flattering, and not too revealing. Let’s face it. “Pink” and “Juicy” don’t belong on my 38-year-old backside.

    Saturday evening, Melissa had a work holiday party, so we babysat their kids … which was super easy since they’re well behaved and my kids like playing with them.

     

      

    I had to work unexpectedly over the weekend … 7am meetings, 11pm sync ups, texts, phone calls, IMs. I was pretty much online all Sunday. Skipped my morning jog, James took both kids to swim lessons. I planned a get-together to see ‘Madeline’s Christmas’ show that day, and had to miss the pre-show lunch at Red Robin. Bah! I was able to sneak away for the actual performance though (yes, I did check my work email during intermission sad ) Annoying as it is when work gets in the way of life, escalations inject a sense of urgency and energy that I somewhat thrive on. I may be one of those crazy people that need stress in my life, so I can’t complain too much.

     

    (Kids: Alex, Nicole, Calie, Zach, Khloe, Jason, Kelly) ‘Madeline’s Christmas’ was a fun, sold-out show and we had front row seats. I think Calista prefers the smaller theatres, as she likes meeting the characters after the performance.

    Other non-kids activities the past 2 weeks included a date night with James … we watched ‘Life of Pi’, which was very good but boat in the storm made me feel nauseated. At one point, I actually had to walk out of the theater. It’s possible I just ate too much popcorn too, as it seems everyone else was fine. We had appetizers at Chops before heading home. My team and I took my awesome admin (now ex-admin… *sniff!*) Marissa out for lunch to thank her for all she’s done for us. Because of a re-org at work, I was assigned a different admin. I will definitely miss the awesome support I got from Marissa! My team also went on our Q4 quarterly … an hour at SkyHigh playing dodge-ball and jumping into foam pits. I actually did a flip! I can’t wait to take the kids to show them – they are going to be so impressed.

     

      

    We then went to Samauri Sushi and received such bad service that we walked out. Upon discovering we were on a company expensed Happy Hour, the owner claimed our group was too big to get the discounted prices. We ended up going to Chicago Fire, which was a crowd pleaser. Can’t beat their deep dish pizzas – best crust ever! (My Yelp warning: http://www.yelp.com/biz/samurai-sushi-rancho-cordova)

     

    Speaking of work (again), do you ever question your choice of industry? I am really a girl’s girl. I grew up with sisters. I was a girl scout (and girl scout leader.) My best friends are women. Today I trimmed my nails using wire cutters … and when I cut myself, I glued the wound with super glue. I think it’s a sign that I’m around men too much all day.