Month: April 2013

  • Big news since my last post … I’m an Aunt! My little sister Sophia had a baby boy this past weekend.

    Summary: Baby boy born via emergency C-section after 36 hours of labor; both mom and baby are fine/healthy.

    Stats: Name = Dylan, Length = 19″, weight = 6lbs 15oz, date = 4/20 (exact due date)

    I woke up Friday morning and got a message that my sister’s contractions started around 11pm the night before, occurring around every half hour. I moved my meetings to the morning and left work at noon to drive to the Bay Area. My parents (they flew in from Maryland a few days ago) and other sister were already there.

     

    Baby’s nursery … so classic. I wish she designed my kids’ nurseries! My mom made Chinese food for us – delicious. (I’m never going to drop those last few pounds! silly)

      

    We (Sophie/Eddie/I) went into the hospital at ~10pm Friday night. The nurse did a triage and she was only 2cm dilated and 50% effaced. They said her contractions were irregular, but I didn’t really agree with that. Anyway, they gave Sophia some pain medication and sent us home. We all tried to get some sleep, but between 2-3am Sophie decided she couldn’t take the pain, and we shuffled back to the hospital. This time her contractions were much stronger (based on her reaction), lasting 1.5 minutes, and 2-3 minutes apart (vs 5 minutes when we first tried to check-in) The triage nurse said she was only 2cm and 75% effaced … but given that it was a first baby, she should go home. I can’t remember how we convinced them, but I think Sophia was looking so miserable that they let her stay. She got an epidural, and the nurse assured us that it would be many, many more hours. They recommended that Eddie and I go back home and try to get some sleep. Eddie went back to the hospital at 7am and texted me that it would still be awhile – 5-6cm, 80% effaced. He said he would text me when it was close to ready to push. I lolly-gagged at the house, but was bored .. so I decided to head to the hospital around 10am. Just as I walked in, I saw a lot of doctors/nurses swarming and my sister being pushed out in the hospital bed. I called my other sister Alice, who picked up my parents and joined me in the waiting room. At the time, I had no idea what happened – I’ve since learned from my sister that the baby’s heart rate started dropping with each contraction … and at one point, it didn’t recover. It was probably a compressed cord, but even after shifting Sophia around, they couldn’t get the heart rate back up. It went back to normal for awhile, but when the next contraction it dropped again, they made a call to do a C-section. Baby was pulled out and given an APGAR score of 4, based on his complexion, pulse rate, reflex, muscle tone, and breathing,. (3 or less is critical, 4-6 is low, 7-10 is normal). Eddie said that he didn’t start crying right away. By the time the rest of us saw him, he was doing very well (retake of the APGAR = 9!). Kicking, and we all swore he was making eye contact with us behind the nursery glass window. It wasn’t until a few more hours that we were able to see Sophia. She looked pretty miserable, as one would expect coming out of surgery. What a harrowing experience! But you really couldn’t ask for a better ending.

      

    Baby Dylan is really cute and alert. Very delicate features compared to my kids as babies – but he still reminds me of a baby Zachary. Dylan started nursing right away, and very well - I have never known a first time mom/newborn take to nursing as well as my sister and Dylan did. And since Sophie was a “potato” for the first day, Eddie stepped it up and became a diaper changing pro. He even gave my sister (accurate) advice on nursing and tracked nursing times/duration and diaper changes on his phone. I think that’s the best thing about delivery ending in surgery. I’ve seen dads get pushed out of parenting by over zealous, critical moms. Over time you see them lose confidence and withdraw from being an active, hands-on parent. Quite sad. Not that my sister is the neurotic type (not at ALL), but being bedridden was a forcing function for Eddie to do even more than the average dad.

     

    heart heart Congratulations Sophia and Eddie! Welcome to the world, Dylan! heart heart

      

    Back at home, another capable dad took care of 2 kids over the weekend. Lots of playing in the backyard, board games, art, lunch playdate with Alex and Nicole, and I’m willing to bet money that they went geocaching as well. I love that in our family, either parent can leave on short notice (I think I just sent James an email while we were at work) … and the other can easily manage the household and kids.

       

  • April 6th (Saturday) was Zachary’s birthday! For lunch, we went to his favorite restaurant, Red Robin. Then in the evening, he had 5 of his classmates come over to celebrate. First ever sleepover at our house!

      

    The boys played basketball and on the play structure until it got dark. Then they came in for fruit and pizza, before games. Game #1: A 3-part individual paper airplane contest on flying the furthest, accuracy (flying through a basketball hoop), and getting stuck highest on a tree!

     

    Game #2: The boys paired up to compete in building the tallest structure using only mini marshmallows, toothpicks, coffee stirrers, and a pipe cleaner. James also made a structure and won. The “prize” for our games was bragging rights, so James can brag about beating 3rd graders. (Zach and Drew came close in 2nd place, only half an inch shorter!)

     

    Zachary had an ocean themed ice cream birthday cake. Only a third was eaten; I think the boys may have overloaded on marshmallows. Zachary was so happy when his best friends sang him a personalized version of happy birthday, highlighting his interest in marine animals. I am really loving these smaller parties with closer friends – so much more meaningful! 

     

    At around 10pm, I put on ‘The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe’ movie, thinking they would quickly fall asleep. The kids were still whispering past midnight after the movie ended! Once again, kids outlast parents.

     

    That next morning, I went on a slow 2.7 mile jog with Sam. My first attempt at running since the half marathon. I felt okay, but not 100%. James fed the boys pancakes and by 9am, all the guests were picked up. We survived! All of the boys Zach invited were well-behaved, smart, polite, and fun kids. Like the rest of the family, he knows how to pick quality friends! HAPPY 9th BIRTHDAY ZACHARY!

    In the afternoon, I took Calista to a Laser Tag party (she was very afraid and sat out sad … but she did like the Wikki Sticks party favors!) while James took Zachary to a Mad Science party at a pizza restaurant. Happy 5th Birthday Anna! Happy 7th birthday Erik!

      

    This weekend, James and I went out for a movie (Oz the Great and Powerful) and late dinner (Bistro 33.) I really enjoyed the movie, although Mila Kunis still reminds me of ‘The 70s Show’, so it was a stretch to think of her as a wicked witch!

    Saturday, after Calie’s dance class, I took her to Annika’s birthday party. They threw a carnival themed party with games, a clown who twisted balloons and held a magic show, and Robot dance party. I went in thinking I would skip dessert, but couldn’t help myself when I found out it was Tres Leches cake. Happy 5th Birthday Annika!

      

     

    In the late afternoon, I went to a painting class with Rachel, Kathy, Melissa, Sandy, Hui-Ling, Nancy, and Tom. We painted Van Gogh’s ‘Starry Night.’ I initially thought there was no way it would take all 4 hours, but the time flew by. It was nice to exercise the artistic side of my brain, although I admit Tom and I did talk shop for a few minutes. Afterwards, a few of us (joined by Dana) celebrated Rachel’s birthday at Sutter Street Steakhouse. What a great excuse to indulge in steak and cake with good company – Happy Birthday Rachel!

      

     

    Progression of my painting:

      

    On Sunday, Melissa, Karen, and my family went to see ‘It’s Magic’ at Three Stages. It was a live 2 hour show featuring 5 different magicians. Very entertaining – and one of the VPs from work got called up on stage! Afterwards, we all headed back to my place for a barbecue dinner playdate. First barbecue of the season happy … we kept it simple with salad, cheeseburgers, hotdogs, and grilled pesto chicken. Dessert was watermelon and leftover ice cream cake. You know you’re good friends when you can serve leftovers, right? The kids had lots of fun playing badminton and Sam’s crazy ‘capture the ball’ game. Both Zach and Calie were so exhausted, they were asleep before 8pm. Way to go – we should have Sam over more often!

     

      

    I ran 2.7 miles both Saturday and Sunday, so I am slowly getting back into the game. I’ve been feeling a bit lethargic since my vacation without my regular exercise. My plantar fasciitis still isn’t 100% healed, so I’m trying to take it slowly, but it’s been a 4 week rest and I’m getting antsy. I’ve taken 2 barre classes, which are great for core and my arms (vs running) but it’s not quite the same. It’s also a bit frustrating because it seems the difference between my speed and Zachary’s is increasing. He waits for me at before crossing the road or runs backwards, which is demotivating.

    Random pictures of stuff we’ve been doing the past few weeks … lots of games, geo caching, trips to parks and the library.

       

      

     

  • Saturday morning, we went to El Dorado Hills for an Easter Egg hunt before our 2pm flight to Orlando. It was super crowded, with 2 fields. One for 0-6 year olds and one for 7-12 year olds. I took Zach to the older kids’ field which had much fewer people (I guess somewhere in that age group, they grow out of egg gathering?) and ran back to meet up with James/Calie afterwards. It was then time to head to DISNEYWORLD! The flight was downright painless compared to my trip to Bangalore.

      

    We stayed at The Animal Kingdom Lodge (2 bedroom villa in Jambo House) with our friend JP and his girlfriend Stephanie, who flew in from Australia. It was a nice deluxe resort hotel, and reminded me a bit of Aulani in Oahu. Our villa overlooked a “savannah” with animals … Calie was super excited to see a “Zebra for the first time!” (I guess we don’t go to zoos as often as we did when Zach was little)

      

     

    Day 1: Animal Kingdom and Magic Kingdom

    Got there at 10:30am, which is usually considered late for us, but we were battling a 3 hour time difference. Kicked off the vacation with a Kilimanjaro Safari!

     

     

      

    It started pouring mid-afternoon, basically flooding according to my dry California standards. We did one ride in the rain and decided it was way too miserable and headed back to the hotel to rest and change. Once the rain cleared, we went back to the park for rides and dinner at Tuskar House (buffet).  After dinner, we saw a really good Lion King musical followed by a scary Dinosaur ride and Expedition Everest roller coaster, which was quite disorienting at night and probably not the best choice after dinner.

     

    We stayed until the park closed and then headed to Magic Kingdom, which was open to resort guests (Magic Hours) until 3am. Since we’re crazy and on Pacific time, we stayed until 3am. It was awesome! There were no lines at all. We went to the new Fantasyland and basically walked on to the new Little Mermaid ride (normally 90+ minute wait mid-day!) There was also a circus themed area where we were the only ones meeting/greeting characters.

      

      

     

      

    Ride/Show tally: Kilimanjaro Safari, Pangani Forest Trail, Triceratops Spin (x2), Festival of the Lion King, Dinosaur, Expedition Everest, Pirates of the Caribbean, Under the Sea (Little Mermaid), Dumbo, Goofy’s Barnstormer, Tomorrowland Speedway, Astro Orbiter, Many Adventures of Winnie the Pooh (x3), Carousel (x4), It’s a Small World (x2), Peter Pan’s Flight (x4), Character Greeting (Minnie, Daisy, Goofy, Donald), Wishes Night Time Spectacular, Main Street Electrical Parade.

    Day 2: Magic Kingdom

    Due to an epic first day, we all slept in and didn’t get to Magic Kingdom until around noon on day 2. We still got in quite a few rides, although lines were long, so we limited ourselves to Fast Pass rides and ones with shorter waits. We also prioritized shows and rides unique to Disneyworld. 

     

    Lunch as a quick bite at Pinocchio Village Haus (we go there all the time in Disneyland, so not very exciting) followed by drinks at the new Gaston’s Tavern (LeFou’s Brew = frozen apple juice with hints of toasted marshmallow and a passion fruit-mango foam.)

      

    Calista dressed up in a Minnie Mouse costume and was very excited to get personalized Mouse Ears! I wanted to get Zach one too, but he thought they were “silly.” sad

      

    We got really lucky with a cancelled reservation and got into the new ‘Be our Guest’ restaurant. It was themed as Beast’s castle … napkins were folded like red roses, huge chandeliers hung above us, and windows made it look like it was snowing outside. I highly recommend eating here if you can get reservations; They get booked up months in advance and for good reason! We were all pretty beat when we went home at 11pm.

     

     

    Ride/Show tally: Buzz Lightyear (x2), Space Mountain, Carousel of Progress, Stitch’s Great Escape, Monsters Inc. Laugh Floor, Mickey’s PhilharMagic, Under the Sea, Enchanted Tales with Belle, and Tiki Room (this show always brings back childhood memories!)

    Day 3: Hollywood Studios

    We got up early and got to Hollywood Studios when it opened (8am). Started the day with Toy Story Mania since we knew it was a popular ride. It was a hit with all of us. Zach also really enjoyed the new Aerosmith Rock’n Roller coaster! He said it rivaled Space Mountain as his top favorite ride of all time.

      

    That said, this park was the kid’s least favorite … there were “too many shows”, which tested their patience, especially since our kids don’t watch many movies. We loved the cute ‘Honey, I Shrunk the Kids’ play area though – so many neat photos ops too!

     

      

    We had a late dinner at Sci-Fi Café, a drive-in theater themed restaurant, where you ate in cars. They were booked for weeks (we couldn’t snag reservations), but we were able to walk in at 10:30pm. Score! We were quite literally one of the last families to leave Hollywood Studios after 11pm … it was eerie how empty the park was!

     

    Ride/Show tally: Toy Story Mania (x2), The Legend of Cpt. Jack Sparrow, Voyage of the Little Mermaid, Beauty and the Beast, Rock ‘n’ Roller Coaster (x3), Tower of Terror, The Great Movie Ride, Lights Motors Action Stunt show, ‘Honey I Shrunk the Kids’ playground

    Day 4: Epcot

    Slept in on day 4 and got to Epcot around noon. It just so happened that they had a ‘Flower & Garden Festival’, and the whole park was decorated with fun topiaries. So while it was busier due to Spring Break, there were some advantages to visiting last week.

      

    Epcot had a good mix of documentary-type shows, rides, and hands-on experiences (similar to being at a children’s museum.) I really liked the World Showcase, although we didn’t have time to go through many countries on our first day there. I thought Disney did a very good job, and there were numerous restaurants I wanted to try. We ended up having lunch at San Angel (Mexico) and a cafeteria style dinner at Sunshine Seasons.

     

      

     

    When Epcot closed at 9pm, we went to Magic Kingdom. John knew the differences between MK and Disneyland, and was able to direct us to the new-to-us experiences. We didn’t leave until 12:30am in the morning!

     

    Ride/Show tally: the Seas with Nemo & Friends, Turtle Talk w/Crush, Aquarium, Mission Space, The Sum of All Thrills, Spaceship Earth, Ellen’s Energy Adventure, Innovations, Living with Land, Illuminations: Reflections of Earth, Haunted Mansion, Country Bear Jamboree, Magic Carpets of Aladdin, Peter Pan’s Flight

    Day 5: Epcot and Magic Kingdom

    Got up early so that we could get to Epcot as soon as it opened (9am). We went around to all the countries in the World Showcase. Lunch was buffet at the German Biergarten … really good blaukraut (red cabbage) and cheddar beer soup. We ate and watched a music/dancing show. For dinner, we had French cuisine (Chefs de France.) It was quite good as well. The prices weren’t even that outrageous, especially since JP is a Disney Club member, which translated to 20% off our bill!

     

     

      

    Zach’s favorite shows are documentaries, so Epcot was his favorite of all Disneyworld parks. He spent a lot of time in the museums reading about the displays; often we were the only family in there. He was very interested in the terracotta warriors and the various Chinese dynasties. It was also ‘Spring Fling’ week, so the kids participated in an Easter egg hunt and mini carnival games.

      

      

     

    In the evening, we moved from Animal Kingdom to Port Orleans Riverside. While still a Disney resort, it’s a moderate (vs deluxe) hotel …and that was pretty obvious. There was such a big difference that I was really glad I didn’t go economy! The bathroom and bedroom were separated by a curtain, and there were no ramps or elevators so managing a stroller and luggage was a bit cumbersome. It was nice enough though, as all we needed was a place to sleep. I actually originally chose this place since it has a park and a jogging trail. How naïve of me to think we would have downtime!

     

    Ride/Show tally: Mexico, Norway, China, American Adventure, Japan, Morocco, France, United Kingdom, Canada, Italy, Test Track (x2), Soar’n, Journey into Imagination with Figment

    Day 6: Epcot, Magic Kingdom, and Universal Studios

    James, JP, and Stephanie got up at the crack of dawn (maybe earlier … 5am) to catch a taxi to Universal Studios. In addition to park admission, they paid $109/each for ‘front of the line’ passes. This is definitely needed for peak times such as spring break, and saved them hours of wait time. They got to go on the Harry Potter ride twice! In the meantime, I am back at Disney with 2 kids. They were on their best behavior ever, as both kids reminded each other that there was only 1 parent “Remember, mom is the little red hen!” I had the kids bathed and out the door by 10am, with no stroller. I didn’t want to juggle a stroller, and decided that if Calista got tired, we’d call it an early day (ha!)

      

      

    We went on the Nemo ride 3x and spend an exorbitant amount of time in the aquarium area. We had lunch at Via Napoli in Italy (overpriced unless you share a large pizza), dessert (school bread and a Viking mousse cake) at Kringla Bakeri Og Kafe in Norway, and then saw a 360 movie and acrobats at the China pavilion. Their favorite countries to visit were Italy and China, which is terrific since those are both on the 2-year plan for family vacations.

     

      

    The kids played at the Wizard of Oz and Radiator Springs parks, and spent quite some time in the Innovation Center. We played a Piggy Savings game 5x and never won! There was a technology section that was poorly attended (but my kids liked) and a practice fire drill lesson.

     

      

    At around 8pm, the kids decided they wanted to go back to Magic Kingdom. Calie had to say good-bye to Minnie and Daisy. We had dinner at Starlight Café, picked up Mickey bars for dessert from a cart, and did more rides. Zach and I were trying to predict what would happen next on the Jungle Cruise, and were pleasantly surprised that it was different than the one from Disneyland! Left the park at midnight. It finally happened. After years of pushing around zonked out kids in a stroller, they are now outlasting me. Holding her new Minnie Mouse toy, Calista said to herself (but out loud) “I am SO lucky!” Yes, we are. heart THANK YOU JP for planning an awesome trip!!!

     

      

    Some pictures from James at Universal:

      

     

    Ride/Show tally (Disney only): The Seas with Nemo & Friends (x3), Innovations (x5), Oz playground, Radiator Springs playground, Italy, China, Peter Pan, Small World (x2), Jungle Cruise, Characters (Duffy, Minnie & Daisy)

    Disneyworld travel tips:

    • It is REALLY crowded during spring break (and I assume other major holidays and summer) so if you can help it, avoid those time
    • If you have to travel during that peak time, try to offset your hours. For us, travelling across 3 time zones meant we could stay up really late and eat at unconventional times
    • Hit the big rides in the morning and the kiddie rides end of the day. Teenagers tend to sleep in and little kids usually go to bed early
    • Obviously, make use of their Fast Pass and Baby Swap passes (yes, they do stack). The baby swap passes allows you to bring 3 additional people … so Calista helped us get on a few key rides an extra time!
    •  Buy the park hopper only if your kids are older. It was worth it for us since we’d hop to Magic Kingdom (open until 1am or 3am!) for a few hour after the other parks closed. For families with younger kids who plan on shorter days, it wouldn’t make sense since you lose time shuttling between parks
    • Bring ponchos and wear water shoes on forecasted rain days
    • Set expectations with the kids in terms of how long you’re willing to stand in line … ours was “no line over 35 minutes”
    • Stay onsite. Disneyworld is huge compared to Disneyland. The bus system is pretty good, but if your kids are younger, staying at a hotel on the monorail is probably more convenient
    • Plan at least 1 table service meal per day, maybe 2 if you’re doing super long days like we did. It’s a good time to give the feet a break and just reset from go-go-go! At Disney, the restaurants are themed and hence an experience on their own – in case you need to justify the increased cost vs getting a burger/pizza/turkey leg from a stand
    • Plan a few ‘down’ days to hang out at the hotel, especially if you stay at themed Disney resorts (I wish we did that!)
    • And really cheap-o tips … burger bars have free fixings including lettuce, tomato, grilled onions and mushrooms, nacho cheese sauce. You can make a super-duper burger with cheesy fries, heck even a salad for minimal cost. And if you crave a cold carbonated drink at Epcot, instead of spending ~$3, you can hit the Coca-Cola building for (big! unlimited!) samples of drinks from different countries. Just skip Italy

    We got back late Saturday. On Easter Sunday, we had Tabitha’s family over for an impromptu egg hunt and lunch. They actually invited us to a park, but the weather forecast was rain (wrong) so we moved it to our backyard. James taught Chigme how to geo-cache (including a practice run to a nearby cache) … we are sucking more people in to our nerdy adventures! Happy Easter everyone!

     

      

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